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Where can I find someone else like me? In Lifeclass this week, Lesley Garner advises a reader on how to go about finding a purely platonic partner. The trouble is, I am celibate.
I have looked at websites and find them so off-putting. Having to send a photograph is daunting I photograph badly. I am told that I have a bubbly personality and am very warm and kind. I would like that to be enough.
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Do you know of an organisation I can pay to find a matching companion? Please let me know.
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